Beggars can't be choosers. And if you're asking me to buy you stuff, don't be picky if it's stuff that's supposed to be on loan to you. Even more annoying, maybe you could pay me back. And if you're going to really, really drive me insane, keep on asking me for supplies/help/etc, all the while, without even trying to be a friend. Just because you want to "hang out" doesn't necessarily make you a friend, and sending a query out once every two weeks or month or so to "hang out" in the nebulous sense of the term really doesn't even count was wanting to chill.

A "real friend" is someone who's supposed to stay and help whenever the rest of the world won't - but you can't be a real friend to everyone, and I'm okay with a mutually-beneficial-let's-use-each-other-quasi-friendship.  It's really, really, annoying when that only goes one way, from me to you, for an extended period of time. I don't mind helping you, but I do have an issue with feeling used and then getting yelled at for "not wanting to hang out," when you know you're annoying me. Stop quoting your precious Bible and wake up to reality, God helps those who help themselves, and all you do is whine and wait for other people to help you.