No.
Nononono. No thinking.
No.

"The person who loves you has picked you out of the great mass of uncreated clay which is humanity to make something out of, and the poor lumpish clay which is you wants to find out what it has been made into. But at the same time, you, in the act of loving somebody, become real, cease to be a part of the continuum of the uncreated clay and get the breath of life in you and rise up. So you create yourself by creating another person.... So there are two you's, the one you create by loving and the one the beloved creates by loving you. The farther those two you's are apart the more the world grinds and grudges on its axis. But if you loved and were loved perfectly then there wouldn't be any difference between the two you's or any distance between them. They would coincide perfectly, there would be perfect focus, as when a stereoscope gets the twin images on the card into perfect alignment."

Yes.

On a different note, my hair is the longest it's been since like...freshman year. Weird. I forgot how pretty long hair could be. Why have I been cutting it shorter all this time? (Because short hair looks pretty good too, and it's a good feeling to chop it all off when you're annoyed? -_-")